I have a secret.
When I do nice things, I don’t do them for the other person.
I do them for myself.
Because I know how it makes me feel when I do something nice for someone else.
Like, last week, when I was buying a nitro cold brew (Temple Coffee, in case you were wondering).
I bought the person’s coffee who was in line behind me.
Not because of how I wanted her to feel.
But because of how I knew it would make me feel.
Selfish? Some may think so. That’s none of my business.
See, I know I can’t make someone else feel anything.
I have zero control over the thoughts that create their feelings.
But, I do have control over my feelings.
And I happen to know that buying a stranger a coffee makes me feel good.
In fact, when I’m having “one of those days,” that’s exactly what I do.
Get to work on trying to find someone I can do something nice for.
Want to do something nice for yourself?
Schedule a call with me. Let’s see what’s possible, together.